Men or Woman, straight or gay – anyone can cheat! Cheating is something that has affected many of us – whether it’s advising a friend or relative who has concerns about their relationship, or a of doubt crossing your own mind when it comes to your own relationship.
Question is- Are you able to get those signs so that you can take corrective measure or can walk out of that relationship to avoid emotional trauma you may go through in future?
- Behaviour that hints you with the gut feeling that something isn’t right – Your Intuition
Pay attention to your instincts. Ignoring them means you want to blind yourself to the truth. You know your mate’s habits, routines and attitudes much better than anybody else.
Be cautious and use subtle confronting techniques when these things change.
2. Their Schedule Changes Suddenly Without Proper Reason
Normally people have predictable schedules and you are mostly aware of it, and even if their schedule changes, there’s usually a good reason that makes sense. Someone who must ‘work late’ all of a sudden at times that go beyond a reasonable explanation may be cheating most likely. This is one of the important sign that your partner is cheating.
3. Gets Into Frequent Fights With You
The hidden desire to meet that person may pick up small small issues to start a fight and create an opportunity to escape and go out to meet her/him. The person cheating has mixed feeling and somewhere he/she is having a guilt and frustration inside resulting in frequent fights. However the desire to cheat is subconsciously dominant.
4. Buys you lot of gifts suddenly – more than usual
The feeling of guilt inside and fear of getting caught or doubt forces the person to show the affection and love by presenting more and more gifts. If that happens suddenly more than usual, take measures to find the truth out subtly.
5. Lack Of Attention On You And Children
One side where the person is buying lot of gifts to show attention, other side can be indifference also. This means that your person has already lost interest in you and external affair is going on for long. He/she is not really considerate much and has made up the mind to separate easily.
It’s the time to have an open conversation to decide on the future path for the better.
6. Increased Response Time Over Texts & Calls
Lack of attention has its reasons. It can be related to cheating or other issues at work or business. However if your person’s response time to answer your calls or texts has increased and continues for long, it may be a sign of cheating. Work and business issues may not always lead to delayed responses.
7. Changed Phone Habits
Change of passwords frequently, keeping phone on silent often and putting locks on the apps is one of the strongest signs of cheating.
8. Accusing You Of Cheating
This is to dominate that you don’t get into the feel that your partner or mate is cheating on you this is the technique. This may be a sign of their insecurities and the fact that they’re actually the one cheating on you.
9. Silence! Shows No Interest In Usual Talk
One less-than-obvious sign is if your partner isn’t speaking to you much. It may be a sign they’re becoming more withdrawn and sharing less with you. Normally this stage is difficult to be reversed as external affair is going on for long and the person has mentally decided to move away.
10. Less Eye Contact
This is one of the strongest gesture of a cheating person. The guilt inside doesn’t allow the him/her to make an eye contact and talk.
11. Change in Sexual Drive
People feel if one partner is cheating, the frequency of sex decreases because they’re already getting it on the side! But the excitement of an affair can actually increase the sexual drive in a relationship—it could be even hotter than it normally is. Sense if the change is significant for long.
12. Being Secretive About Finances
Suddenly questions on money scare and frustrate them. They don’t want to talk about it and change the topic. Keeping you in the dark about their money and how they’re spending, means you never know where the money is going, how much money they’re spending, and who they’re spending it on…that way, they never have to be held accountable or explain to you what’s going on!
13. They Suddenly Pay More Attention To Their Looks
Couples normally tend to care less about their looks once they feel secure in their relationship, so if your partner is suddenly buying new clothes to dress up or taking extra long to get ready, they may be up to something which may be an affair which you may call as cheating.
14. They Avoid To Make Plans Together
Cheaters have to make time for their fling as well—and that time usually comes from time you once spent together. If the affair has gone on for a while, there may be demands placed upon them by their paramour to spend more time together.
In such case, it’s perfectly OK and expected to ask your partner what’s going on when they’re suddenly not around as much as usual.
15. They Avoid To Disclose Details Of Their Day
People normally share intimate details of their day with their partner when there’s nothing secretive. But when they’re cheating, that tends to shift to the new fling. As a result, they end up telling you less. “When they already have someone to share this with, they might not even be aware they are no longer sharing with you”.