Sex On First Date? Secrets And Experts Recommendations..

Some experts say a big YES! Is sex a taboo even now? Why so much discussion about the sex on the first date? Well, It’s an individual thought. A chemistry check or validating the opinion elsewhere?

If you’re confused whether you should have sex on the first date, I’m gonna stop you right there and remind you that you should only ever do what makes you comfortable and feels good. There is no right or wrong in it, there is no rule. It needs your own conscience.

However, let’s look at the views some of the experts have:

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The BIG YES! (If both agree)

  1. The Stigma Around First-Date Sex Is Outdated Now

Remember that desire to have sex with someone on the first date does not make you a bad person at all. It doesn’t make you ‘cheap’. Getting laid with someone you just met a couple hours ago says nothing about the content of your character, it’s a chemistry that has activated hormones. However it’s not mandatory or fashion to have sex on the first date if you are not wanting to have it.

2. It May Liberate You

Sex on the first date can be really liberating. It makes you away from the thought of society beliefs, hence you get away from the taboo of looking good, dressing well and not being yourself. You don’t have to pose yourself and both can really exchange the real feelings once the act is over. Chances of long term relationship may increase if it materialises else you have life to explore the real he/she.

3. Checks The Ability Of Physical Intimacy & Satisfaction

Having sex on the first date means you’ll explore each other’s bodies, experience intimacy with someone new, and hopefully, feel amazing, (Yes its about orgasms as well) But honestly, that’s it — it doesn’t have to mean anything else beyond that. “Action isn’t automatically going to push your partner into starting a relationship, follow monogamy, proposing to you, or falling in love with you.

Your decision to have sex on first date is personal one. It doesn’t guarantee the future. Check your comfort, take it easy and protect yourself if you decide to go ahead.

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4. It Can Be An Immediate Decision Point

In most cases first date sex is decisive of a NO at least! If not a great Yes, it opens the door to be more comfortable in knowing each other better in the dates to come. The hesitation is burnt, steamed and drained already in the first date sex. The time to reach a conclusion shortens.

The BIG NO!

1. Temporary Emotional Wave May Make You Regret Later

Its common that all guys are interested in having sex with all women, all the time, but there are many logical reasons why you might not want to have sex on a first date — maybe you’re not attracted to the person, or maybe you have a history of unsatisfying one-night stands and you want to reverse the pattern. Whatever the reason, if adrenaline (and alcohol) are flowing, that ups the risk of you doing something you might later regret.

When you’re in the warmth of the moment, you’re trying to figure out your rules, beliefs, and what you will and won’t do. When there is doubt and when you think ,’I’m not going to say NO and ruin the evening or upset my date, but I’m not totally into this,’ it may just end up being, ‘I will give in and bide my time.’ And that’s not consent for sure. Be cautious of that.

2. It Can Be Fairly Terrible

Even if you’re greatly attracted to your date, sex still might not go great, simply because you don’t know what they like in bed and somethings can really turn you off. If this happens, you might be more likely to discard the other person (or have your partner discard you). In reality, both of you needed more practice to make it a great act.

The Key Takeaway

It really depends on the courage clarity and emotion management. At last it’s an individual comfort and choice. The key is to have open communication with each other. If it feels right, and if you’re open and truthful about what you’re looking for, then go for it. If not, then there’s no harm in waiting. Remember- There’s no rule but just one – your peace must not get disturbed!

It’s not only about sex, it’s about what men want in a woman, read the complete article here..

Cheers!

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